Ultimately we are only in complete control of our attitude that is governed by our choices which in turn guides or stewardship of who we are and what we have to offer. NOTHING ELCE do we have controle over. All circumstances ,and changes we do not have control over. Each one is simply a lesson in life presented to us.
This means that our success of any kind is determined by out attitude. From our attitudes we create our habits of stewardship. In that way our habits are the catalyst that bring us success or frailer.
Do not worry life allows us to fail our way to success.
Habits is where my speech begins with in the fee move I have for all.
The sooner you can embrace your lessons in life with a positive attitude the easier it will be to move on to the next level of life.
What makes this difficult is that we hate that lesson and avoid it at all cost until we are boxed in. At that point we have a choice to change or die in some way.
That is why our perception in life is our reality, but not our truth. Our perceptions guides our reality.